i had a semi-date tonight

Honor Kleinberger wrote:she just cancelled. big surprise. i told her i got the vibe that she wants to go our seperate ways but she said she has just been confused and wants to stay friendly. fuck all this shit, im buying a fucking cat.

Just make sure it's declawed in case it's "not in the mood."

your kind is insane

That's why I'm not a lesbian. :)

Come cry in the chat room.

Honor Kleinberger wrote:your kind is insane

There are definitely sane women out there. They're just rare.

TheWoerus wrote:

Honor Kleinberger wrote:your kind is insane

There are definitely sane women out there. They're just rare.

And usually taken.

xtine wrote:

TheWoerus wrote:

Honor Kleinberger wrote:your kind is insane

There are definitely sane women out there. They're just rare.

And usually taken.

Yeah. It's a sitty situation.

im curious to see if she stops appearing on aim anymore. ie if she blocked me. that would be funny considering she said she still wants to stay friendly.

well i feel stupid heh

Honor Kleinberger wrote:im curious to see if she stops appearing on aim anymore. ie if she blocked me. that would be funny considering she said she still wants to stay friendly.

In my experience many women, when they say they just want to stay friendly, don't really mean it. They just use that sort of wording as a way of getting away from the situation without feeling guilty about dumping you.

yeah, i would forget about this chick.

she'd probably make a nice centerpiece in your freezer.

ryguy79 wrote:she'd probably make a nice centerpiece in your freezer.

+1

TheWoerus wrote:

Honor Kleinberger wrote:im curious to see if she stops appearing on aim anymore. ie if she blocked me. that would be funny considering she said she still wants to stay friendly.

In my experience many women, when they say they just want to stay friendly, don't really mean it. They just use that sort of wording as a way of getting away from the situation without feeling guilty about dumping you.

Honor Kleinberger wrote:

TheWoerus wrote:

Honor Kleinberger wrote:im curious to see if she stops appearing on aim anymore. ie if she blocked me. that would be funny considering she said she still wants to stay friendly.

In my experience many women, when they say they just want to stay friendly, don't really mean it. They just use that sort of wording as a way of getting away from the situation without feeling guilty about dumping you.

Don't worry about it. Let's go get some trim at the strip club. I'm hungry for some burgers.

Omni wrote:

Honor Kleinberger wrote:

TheWoerus wrote:

Honor Kleinberger wrote:im curious to see if she stops appearing on aim anymore. ie if she blocked me. that would be funny considering she said she still wants to stay friendly.

In my experience many women, when they say they just want to stay friendly, don't really mean it. They just use that sort of wording as a way of getting away from the situation without feeling guilty about dumping you.

Don't worry about it. Let's go get some trim at the strip club. I'm hungry for some burgers.

fur burgers

i just deleted everything that has to do with her or reminds me of her, so im on the road to recovery. part of me hopes to hear from her again saying she was wrong, wants to go out, still wants to be friends, etc. but im not expecting it to happen.

ctl alt del

Here's how I see it...

Like Milleena (I think) said, she just wants attention.

She is one of those girls who like to jump around guys, teasing them, getting close to them, maybe even making out (fucking? Maybe even so, if they play their cards right), but she won't date ANY of them (so it's not something wrong with you).

They're simply girls that act more like men. They don't want to be "tied" to a single guy and "miss all the fun". They might do this conscious or subconsiously, but they do.

The worst thing you can do is... ask them out. Boom, then you're getting serious, so they have to shoot you down. If I remember your story correctly, she kissed you right? Yes, she would have let you touch her sometimes, the ocassional kiss and/or make out. Then she would get all akward, until it's "forgotten", then she will do it again. Wash, rinse and repeat. Then you'll have to go jerk off or else your balls will be the size of oranges.

She is a man-girl, just like praying mantis (my friend I mentioned on this thread). Her BF is gone to iraq or something right? She just want to be crazy, living la vida loca, get felt up by a couple guys, but never getting serious. Then her boyfriend will be back, she will brush her multiple guys off and become good and "pure" again.

I tell you man, this "praying mantis" friend I have has made me realize so many things.

If you're not getting any, and your balls keep getting the size of an orange, why suffer? She wants a fling, so have a fling. Go try kiss her again sometime. If it happens, cool, (JUST DONT FEEL ANYTHING or else you'll be hurt) you just got yourself a makeout buddy. She doesn't, then she is so torn apart by her BF thing, so you don't want to be there anyway, run like the wind.

Honor Kleinberger wrote:im curious to see if she stops appearing on aim anymore. ie if she blocked me. that would be funny considering she said she still wants to stay friendly.

She probably won't. She needs a "lit candle", so to speak. That'd be you. And probably a couple other guys.

thanks for all the advice guys. im listening to the beatles after a long spell of not hearing them for a while and its making me feel surprisingly better.

The_Edge wrote:Here's how I see it...

Like Milleena (I think) said, she just wants attention.

She is one of those girls who like to jump around guys, teasing them, getting close to them, maybe even making out (fucking? Maybe even so, if they play their cards right), but she won't date ANY of them (so it's not something wrong with you).

They're simply girls that act more like men. They don't want to be "tied" to a single guy and "miss all the fun". They might do this conscious or subconsiously, but they do.

The worst thing you can do is... ask them out. Boom, then you're getting serious, so they have to shoot you down. If I remember your story correctly, she kissed you right? Yes, she would have let you touch her sometimes, the ocassional kiss and/or make out. Then she would get all akward, until it's "forgotten", then she will do it again. Wash, rinse and repeat. Then you'll have to go jerk off or else your balls will be the size of oranges.

She is a man-girl, just like praying mantis (my friend I mentioned on this thread). Her BF is gone to iraq or something right? She just want to be crazy, living la vida loca, get felt up by a couple guys, but never getting serious. Then her boyfriend will be back, she will brush her multiple guys off and become good and "pure" again.

I tell you man, this "praying mantis" friend I have has made me realize so many things.

If you're not getting any, and your balls keep getting the size of an orange, why suffer? She wants a fling, so have a fling. Go try kiss her again sometime. If it happens, cool, (JUST DONT FEEL ANYTHING or else you'll be hurt) you just got yourself a makeout buddy. She doesn't, then she is so torn apart by her BF thing, so you don't want to be there anyway, run like the wind.

I don't know about all that man. It seems to me that alcohol was the reason the kiss occurred and the girl liked him but it was all too much too soon.

yeah thats basically it

I still say you should sit outside her house and wimper until she either comes out, or calls the cops./

i would, but i dont know where she lives

TheWoerus wrote:I still say you should sit outside her house and wimper until she either comes out, or calls the cops./

The restraining order does not allow him near her.

Bluntman wrote:

TheWoerus wrote:I still say you should sit outside her house and wimper until she either comes out, or calls the cops./

The restraining order does not allow him near her.

True love is more powerful than any restraining order.

except if its enforced with a taser

Omni wrote:

The_Edge wrote:Here's how I see it...

Like Milleena (I think) said, she just wants attention.

She is one of those girls who like to jump around guys, teasing them, getting close to them, maybe even making out (fucking? Maybe even so, if they play their cards right), but she won't date ANY of them (so it's not something wrong with you).

They're simply girls that act more like men. They don't want to be "tied" to a single guy and "miss all the fun". They might do this conscious or subconsiously, but they do.

The worst thing you can do is... ask them out. Boom, then you're getting serious, so they have to shoot you down. If I remember your story correctly, she kissed you right? Yes, she would have let you touch her sometimes, the ocassional kiss and/or make out. Then she would get all akward, until it's "forgotten", then she will do it again. Wash, rinse and repeat. Then you'll have to go jerk off or else your balls will be the size of oranges.

She is a man-girl, just like praying mantis (my friend I mentioned on this thread). Her BF is gone to iraq or something right? She just want to be crazy, living la vida loca, get felt up by a couple guys, but never getting serious. Then her boyfriend will be back, she will brush her multiple guys off and become good and "pure" again.

I tell you man, this "praying mantis" friend I have has made me realize so many things.

If you're not getting any, and your balls keep getting the size of an orange, why suffer? She wants a fling, so have a fling. Go try kiss her again sometime. If it happens, cool, (JUST DONT FEEL ANYTHING or else you'll be hurt) you just got yourself a makeout buddy. She doesn't, then she is so torn apart by her BF thing, so you don't want to be there anyway, run like the wind.

I don't know about all that man. It seems to me that alcohol was the reason the kiss occurred and the girl liked him but it was all too much too soon.

I can't believe you guys actually read a post that long of rods on girl advice.

dunnas wrote:

Omni wrote:

The_Edge wrote:Here's how I see it...

Like Milleena (I think) said, she just wants attention.

She is one of those girls who like to jump around guys, teasing them, getting close to them, maybe even making out (fucking? Maybe even so, if they play their cards right), but she won't date ANY of them (so it's not something wrong with you).

They're simply girls that act more like men. They don't want to be "tied" to a single guy and "miss all the fun". They might do this conscious or subconsiously, but they do.

The worst thing you can do is... ask them out. Boom, then you're getting serious, so they have to shoot you down. If I remember your story correctly, she kissed you right? Yes, she would have let you touch her sometimes, the ocassional kiss and/or make out. Then she would get all akward, until it's "forgotten", then she will do it again. Wash, rinse and repeat. Then you'll have to go jerk off or else your balls will be the size of oranges.

She is a man-girl, just like praying mantis (my friend I mentioned on this thread). Her BF is gone to iraq or something right? She just want to be crazy, living la vida loca, get felt up by a couple guys, but never getting serious. Then her boyfriend will be back, she will brush her multiple guys off and become good and "pure" again.

I tell you man, this "praying mantis" friend I have has made me realize so many things.

If you're not getting any, and your balls keep getting the size of an orange, why suffer? She wants a fling, so have a fling. Go try kiss her again sometime. If it happens, cool, (JUST DONT FEEL ANYTHING or else you'll be hurt) you just got yourself a makeout buddy. She doesn't, then she is so torn apart by her BF thing, so you don't want to be there anyway, run like the wind.

I don't know about all that man. It seems to me that alcohol was the reason the kiss occurred and the girl liked him but it was all too much too soon.

I can't believe you guys actually read a post that long of rods on girl advice.

rod of all people . ..

there are actually girls out there like what rod said you noobs. ive known more than a few .

however im 99 percent sure she isnt one of them. ill chalk this one up to bad decisions fueled by alcohol. trying to jump from the friend ladder onto the mate ladder before it was time (if ever) and falling into the twisting nether (aka never or seldomly talking to her again).


at least she blames herself for it though, flirting with me all the time and kissing me and such. obviously i wouldnt have told her shit if she didnt do any of that stuff. but it seemed like i was getting quite a few signals. i think alot of guys would have done the same in my situation, esp. if loaded.

what i wouldnt do right now for a DeLorean time machine

TheWoerus wrote:

Bluntman wrote:

TheWoerus wrote:I still say you should sit outside her house and wimper until she either comes out, or calls the cops./

The restraining order does not allow him near her.

True love is more powerful than any restraining order.

i love this

also, honor, i assumed this was some girl you'd known for quite some time.

i think you should chop her up.

Aristotle wrote:ctl alt del

all about the pentiums

honor, you'd better be out raping this whore.

well, i sent her a message on mysapce back in 05 just trying to network a little around my town and then i started talking to her on aim. i only met her in person for the first time late may. we hung out 4 times since then.

anyway, she didnt block me on aim. she was online earlier while i was at work. thanks, deadaim!

Aristotle wrote:also, honor, i assumed this was some girl you'd known for quite some time.

i think you should chop her up.

i have to wait until i have absolutely nothing left to lose before i do something that drastic.

dunnas wrote:

Omni wrote:

The_Edge wrote:Here's how I see it...

Like Milleena (I think) said, she just wants attention.

She is one of those girls who like to jump around guys, teasing them, getting close to them, maybe even making out (fucking? Maybe even so, if they play their cards right), but she won't date ANY of them (so it's not something wrong with you).

They're simply girls that act more like men. They don't want to be "tied" to a single guy and "miss all the fun". They might do this conscious or subconsiously, but they do.

The worst thing you can do is... ask them out. Boom, then you're getting serious, so they have to shoot you down. If I remember your story correctly, she kissed you right? Yes, she would have let you touch her sometimes, the ocassional kiss and/or make out. Then she would get all akward, until it's "forgotten", then she will do it again. Wash, rinse and repeat. Then you'll have to go jerk off or else your balls will be the size of oranges.

She is a man-girl, just like praying mantis (my friend I mentioned on this thread). Her BF is gone to iraq or something right? She just want to be crazy, living la vida loca, get felt up by a couple guys, but never getting serious. Then her boyfriend will be back, she will brush her multiple guys off and become good and "pure" again.

I tell you man, this "praying mantis" friend I have has made me realize so many things.

If you're not getting any, and your balls keep getting the size of an orange, why suffer? She wants a fling, so have a fling. Go try kiss her again sometime. If it happens, cool, (JUST DONT FEEL ANYTHING or else you'll be hurt) you just got yourself a makeout buddy. She doesn't, then she is so torn apart by her BF thing, so you don't want to be there anyway, run like the wind.

I don't know about all that man. It seems to me that alcohol was the reason the kiss occurred and the girl liked him but it was all too much too soon.

I can't believe you guys actually read a post that long of rods on girl advice.

I read a lot more of rod posts than I should.